No matter how badly you want love, you need to work on your self-confidence first. How can you attract someone else if you aren't happy with yourself in the first place? Would you be in a relationship with someone who doesn't know what they want?
After being in a long-term relationship for such a long time, maybe it would be a good idea to stay off the radar for a while. Of course, you can fool around and satisfy your sexual desires, but going beyond this might not be the right decision for you.
You'll grow and gain self-confidence by focusing on matters in your life that concern you, like your finances and physical fitness. Once you've completed these 'tasks,' opening up to others will come more easily to you, Libra.
If you're already in a relationship, one of the two of you will probably start asking where this is headed. Don't be afraid to talk it out, because it's always best to communicate whatever comes to your head.
You'll open your eyes and decide to take care of matters that have been bothering you for a while now. You didn't feel strong enough to do it before, but now there's no excuse, you're conscious of the fact that you need to find solutions.
Don't carry too much weight on your back, look for someone that can help you out. Given your incredible diplomatic talent, you won't have any trouble finding people to pitch in.
You should also find out more on your own about whatever it is that you don't know since you'll need this information to see your problem in a new light.
If you've been unemployed for a while, it's time for you to really get engaged in your job search.
After quite some time on your 'forced' vacations, without working and just living your life, it's time to get back into the daily grind. Otherwise, you'll go through serious setbacks shortly, Libra.
You love being comfortable, but if you keep ignoring your physical fitness, your mood won't get any better as the years pass.
The human body starts to deteriorate naturally, and if you don't do anything to keep it looking fresh, at some point things will start getting hard to handle.
Beyond the aesthetic or what people will say to you, you should do this to give yourself a chance at a happy life. A life where physical activities don't imply barriers for you, this way you can enjoy a wider variety of experiences.