Brief love and outbursts are useful tools that are good for the body and the soul from time to time. It isn't your case now, Virgo, but for some reason you are taking the wrong path, and you're looking for this kind of relationships than something stable.
No matter how lazy you are, or the lack of confidence you have, you need to change your perspective when focusing on your conquests or you will only accumulate unproductive love and a huge sense of frustration.
Sometimes, the more people you have by your side the more lonely you feel, Virgo, and that's how you're feeling right now. Look for a special person; look for quality and not quantity.
To get to reactivate your optimism and feel more alive it would be good that today, before or after work, you gave yourself a whim, buying some shoes, or some clothes that you like, or having something to eat in a restaurant, or an ice-cream or some chocolate.
Somehow you'll realize that you're turning your life into a routine based on work and family responsibilities, and that makes you lose the perspective of what really counts in life.
On the other hand, for one day, lower the demand with yourself. You will see that deep down you don't do things so horribly wrong as to be continually blaming yourself.
It doesn't make any sense that you keep making the same mistakes when you know you're making your health worse. Change mentality and habits, risk some satisfaction and pleasure in return for more years of life.
Today is a very positive day to change habits and reorganize your lifestyle. One of the most urgent things is abandon certain vices. If you add a plan to reduce stress and improve your relaxation, your body will experiment an improvement in all senses.